...is the laughter of my soulmate. Nothing is better than the sound of her laugh.

but I love the look of a guy in a business shirt with the sleeves rolled up just a little. I don't know why, it just appeals to me. He's dressed up nice and crisp, but the rolled sleeves add just a touch of relaxed and ready for fun.

My wife. Seriously. Glistening with sweat during or after a bike ride. If we went mountain biking, and there is a bit of mud splatter, then that's just icing on the cake. Things that make me feel sexy? A nice fitted t shirt and a cool pair of jeans. I just feel like I can conquer the world. Bonus points if the shirt is a nice cool color (grey, blue, green) and has something catchy on it.

Sexy is my boyfriend smiling at me... Sexy is a backless dress and a light spray of perfume...

Watching an older couple holding hands.

My tallest black peep toe pumps always make me feel extra sexy.

intelligent debates/discussions

laughter

Secrets are sexy -- when you share a secret with your mate it creates a bond of complicity between the two of you. It is a state where only the two of you know something-- that to me is sexy!

making me laugh, playing with a baby, brains tempered with heart, confidence, being utterly besotted with the woman he loves

and if he's barefoot, wearing a crisp white shirt and a old pair of jeans, even better!

Any blue eyed man gets my attention right away. Especially a well dressed man with sparkling blue eyes and a smile that says "I'm up to no good". If I were to bump into that guy and he was actually down to earth, was quick witted, and made me laugh, I'd be up for anything. I feel especially sexy when i have high heels on, long sparkling earrings and my hair down.

Funny guys, even if they don't come across as traditionally attractive, can amp it up with intelligent funny comments.

than when my girlfriend gets home from work, walks in the door with a confident & naughty smirk on, backs me against the wall and starts kissing me, finally pulling away to smile and say "Hi honey!"

As far as myself goes - those moments where you're taking your significant other out and you just got a haircut and are wearing a crisp button-down shirt with the top couple buttons open, the sleeves rolled up once or twice, nice pair of jeans, a light spritz of my girl's favorite cologne, nice clean & minimalistic watch on the wrist, and an exquisite pair of dress shoes dressed down to tie it all together...

She gets a rush seeing other girls eying me and knowing that she's got what they want.

I was going to say the same as #10:
Watching an older couple holding hands...it makes me smile & feel warm & fuzzy.

And hugs...just plain old hugs...mmm

bites her lower lips, looking at me in my eyes.

is my husband saying, "you stay in bed, here's your coffee and the paper, breakfast will be ready in a few, and what can I do for you today?" As the saying goes: husband doing housework=foreplay. I feel sexy when I feel appreciated (see above).

To me, feeling sexy is about feeling comfortable in my own self, in the moment. Nothing expensive, "trying too hard" or put-on ever feels sexy.

So I look for the simplest things that make me feel that.

some examples for my own sense of style/grace:
- good scents from perfumes or essential oils
- simple style, like my one signature pair of silver hoop earrings that I wear almost every day. comfortable soft, well-fitting clothes and fabrics.

and specifically romantic?
- dates where I can spend time connecting with my partner and are focused on us, not money or crazy plans, like going to the beach and having a picnic or hiking or our favorite cheapie, comfort late-night diner. Getting a cup of coffee and watching a beautiful sunset somewhere.
- candlelight.

I mean isn't that the essence of being "frugal"? - its all about being in the moment as simply as possible. So it makes sense that simple indulgences can be very sexy.

The feel of sun-warm cotton sheets against bare skin...

Or a nibble on the nape of the neck.

I remember the moment I started to fall for my boyfriend. We were chatting at the kitchen table on a warm early-summer evening. He looked directly at me with those big blue eyes of his and at that very moment I felt shivers down my spine and goosebumps on my arms! It wasn't just his gorgeous eyes that did it to me. The entirety of his gaze at that moment was sexy: his confidence, intelligence, kindness, the sparkle of mischief that hid behind all of it and the intensity with which he was looking at me made me weak at the knees. Noone has ever made me feel that way before.

On the other side of the spectrum, I feel so incredibly sexy when I catch him looking at me in a way that says 'You're the most beautiful woman in the universe'. This man doesn't even have to say a word... ;)

i find a scruffy face on a man very sexy. with a nicely defined jaw. when a man is doing yardwork and gets dirty. very nice. i like a mischevious man that is a bit of a wise a--. like to play around, but behind the scene is a sweetheart. that to me is the epitomy of sexy.

as for me, i feel sexy, as most women do, in heels. peeptoe specifically. also when i have just had my hair cut and colored. i feel very confident and that is sexy.

there's something about the way my husband calls me 'darlin' that just gets me if you know what i mean. we met first on the phone and his voice alone told me that he was special and hot.

i feel sexiest when i'm kayaking, swimming or on the beach. there's something about water and sun...

the sexiest moment of my life was when i came home from the hospital after my first mastectomy. my then fiance/now husband and i were cuddling. i felt pretty mutilated. however cuddling became kissing and pretty soon i was sure that my missing body part was completely irrelevent to this man that thought i was sexy just because i was me.

whispers in my ear, telling me how hot I am...

When a woman feels loved by her husband, no matter what her size or weight, she has a confidence, an air about her, and a "Mona Lisa" smile....now that is what men find sexy. And that in turn is what drives me wild, when my husband loves me unconditionally, no matter what my size...that is so freeing to a woman and makes me feel absolutely sexy!

honesty, integrity, intimacy

Simple romance is very sexy. Thoughts and gestures just for me.

Hugging really tightly after not seeing my boyfriend for a while. We just finished a 3-month period of long-distance and it was wonderful to just hug him for so long.

I love guys in tailored suits (none of that one-size-fits all men's warehouse type of thing). Big bonus points if they wear suspenders!
Accents (British) are also incredibly sexy.

And although I know they're bad for my posture, my feet, my everything, nothing beats a killer pair of heels.

...is someone who smiles at me like he knows something I don't know, and it's very, very good.

An open-collared shirt, jeans, and barefootedness works, too. :)

My husband makes me feel sexy by loving and caring for me :)

The sexiest thing for me is when you get home and your partner has drawn a warm, candle lit bath for you to share.

The thing that makes me feel the sexiest is when I am in uniform on lunch... Nothing makes the ladies heads turn like a man in uniform, but especially a firefighter!

midgets... oh yes, midgets....

what i find sexy is intelligence and a beautiful smile. if you cant talk to someone how else can you spend time with them?