When I lived in New York and made less than a public school teacher in Idaho, one of my guy friends would often offer to pay for lunch since, as he jokingly put it, I only had “girl money.” It was the first time I’d heard the term, but I never forgot it. I was perplexed. I mean, money was money. What did being a girl have to do with it?
A few years later, when I began working in the finance industry, the concept of “girl money” came up again. Countless capable, intelligent women would insist they “knew nothing about money.” Professional women earning over six figures a year turned to mush when confronted with mutual fund prospectuses and portfolio illustrations. These were individuals I knew to be smart, successful, and certainly capable of decision making. In some ways, these women still viewed their six figure salaries as “girl money” — luckily, most of them cared enough to educate themselves on the best ways to save and invest their cash. (See also: Why Women Don't Negotiate)
Professional women earn more today than they ever have. Understanding how to save and invest those earnings not only makes financial sense, but helps women become more independent and confident overall. Everyone starts somewhere, and there’s often a learning curve. Below are a few tips and ideas on saving and investing to get started on the right path.
If Cyndi Lauper was right and girls just want to have fun, it’s probably going to take some cash to make that fun happen. You work hard for a paycheck, so make yourself a priority in your budget.
Research has shown that men and women approach the concept of saving and investing money very differently, in part because they’re hardwired to think differently. For women, this works very much in our favor. Men tend to be emotionally driven when it comes to investing and are comfortable with more risk. Women trade less (which equates to fewer trading fees) and tend to be risk averse.
Whether you’re just starting to invest or want to increase your financial literacy, the following investment tips make sense for female investors.
This post is a part of Women's Money Week 2012. For more posts about saving and investing, see womensmoneyweek.com.
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Great post! I think the tip about trusting your instinct is a good one. The worst thing in the world is when you don't follow your gut, and it later turns out your instinct was right.
Thank you! On instinct, you're completely right- that's a hard lesson, but a valuable one to learn.
I never heard the term "girl money" before this -- so condescending.
I know. The worst part is, I don't even think he understood how it came across. It was certainly motivational in ways he probably never intended, though!
Nice post. I haven't heard the term "girl money" but I'm certainly aware of the concept. Women may think about money (and a lot of things) in their own way, but the advice in terms of how we should be handling it is the same. And frankly, the notion that we're somehow genetically debilitated when it comes to making money really makes my blood boil! Thanks for the perspective and sound advice:-)
Hey Tara - Yeah, it's funny how there's this stereotype about women not knowing how to make money, yet recent studies have proven we're actually more "genetically suited" to saving money than our male counterparts. Women tend to buy and hold and be less emotional on investing...guys tend to be more aggressive. In the end from what I've read, one gender doesn't end up making more than the other - it's actually pretty much dead even, just with different investment styles.
And yeah, it makes my blood boil too. I think it's changing for the better, though.