As a young adult, I thought I had a firm grasp on being financially responsible. At the tender age of 18, I moved out of my parent's house to live on my own. I couldn't wait to become an adult with adult responsibilities. I had the basic understanding that I had to pay my bills on time, and I made sure that I was always employed. But I never really understood my credit score, or how the credit agencies calculated that elusive number, or even why it was important to build a good score. This misunderstanding led me to make some irresponsible decisions that took many years to correct. To be quite honest, those mistakes of yesteryear are only now beginning to fall off my credit report.
One of the most glaring things missing today from high school or college education is educating young adults on how to build good credit and why it is important. Had I been able to take a class on using and successfully managing credit, I might not have made so many mistakes.
So, I've decided to outline my steps showing how I completely wrecked my credit, then how I worked twice as hard to get it back. Hopefully this will be an insightful lesson on what not to do!
I can truly say that I was under the influence when I made many of my poor credit decisions. Of course, that influence was young love. The chemical dopamine does funny things to your brain! Here is just a short list of ridiculous things I did that negatively affected my credit.
Bad idea! As exhilarating as it was the first few weeks to be corporate-job free, I soon realized that I couldn't survive on hot dog sales alone.
I quickly came to the conclusion that it takes many years to actually profit from a small business. Whoops!
Guess what happened? You got it! One morning I noticed my car wasn't in its parking spot. Within seconds I knew what had happened: The repo man had slipped in quietly and took it back. Hoofing it for a few weeks is permanently etched in my brain!
Had I hired a tenant right's lawyer, I might have won the case. (I did actually save all of my rent payments until the court date.) However, against my better judgment, I went it alone and got evicted. This one really hurt, and the judgment took 7 years to fall off my credit report. Ouch!
This is one that is easy to get back on track, thankfully. However, during the time my loan was in default, the feds kept my tax refund.
I am now at a point where I can look back and chuckle a little at the disastrous foibles I made with my credit and finances. But how did I get my credit back on track? After a few years of making horrendous mistakes, I realized that a good credit score was important for future decisions. First off, many employers view how responsible you are based on your credit score. The higher the score, the more responsible you appear to them. Secondly, there comes a time when you may want to purchase a new car because you can now afford the payments. A good score means a much better finance rate. And finally, most people can't pay cash for a house. A high score will allow you to become eligible for a low interest rate home loan. Here is how I've been able to turn my finances and credit around.
I worked on paying off the smaller balances, to keep me motivated, and then hacked away at the larger ones. I've paid off a total of $8,500. I'm not completely debt free yet, but this is a good start.
I revise my budget every couple of months to see if there are places I can cut back and save.
Even small amounts I receive as gifts count in my book.
This comes in handy if the need arises to replace a tire or pay a parking or speeding ticket.
Eat at home more, cook for friends, and take your own lunch to work. I have been able to cut back the most on this category alone.
I don't purchase an item the first time I see it. I wait a day or so, then decide if I really need it. Out of sight, out of mind usually works.
I cut back on Starbucks, movies, vacations, traveling, cable, and reduced my cell phone plan.
Had someone sat me down years ago and explained why it is so important to be financially responsible, I'm quite sure I would have made some different decisions. However I can genuinely appreciate the saying, "Hind sight is 20/20," much more today than I could have 15 years ago. But I guess that's the point.
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Traveling for me, is hardly frivolous. That's the problem when associating value with certain things. Everyone is different, and what is important to you, frivolous to you, very well could be different than what I believe.
The best way to be prepared in case of parking or speeding tickets, is to not speed or park illegally. This also saves money. According to fueleconomy.gov:
While each vehicle reaches its optimal fuel economy at a different speed (or range of speeds), gas mileage usually decreases rapidly at speeds above 60 mph.
You can assume that each 5 mph you drive over 60 mph is like paying an additional $0.24 per gallon for gas.
And it's the same recommendation that goes out to all these self-professed personal finance experts (who got themselves into a bad financial situation) posting garbage like this.
The best way not to get into financial or credit problems is to not put yourself in the situation to begin with.
How about this - don't charge more than you can payoff at the end of each month, pay your bills on time, use credit judiciously? If you can't afford something that means you don't buy it. What's so difficult?
Hard to believe articles like this warrant a place on a website.
I definitely don't proclaim to be a financial expert. However, I've learned how to manage my finances the hard way. Hopefully this article will inspire those that have also made mistakes to turn their finances around. It's easy to say, "Don't make bad choices to begin with." But, sometimes people do make bad decisions and they need to know that all is not lost.
I'm sorry if my article offended you. We all can't be perfect!
-Little House
What's with the self-righteousness, people?
Lots of people will relate to this article. Everyone's situation is unique, Little House has her own perspective, and like she said, she's not a pro, just someone writing her own story and what worked for her.
People have all sorts of different, personal reasons for having financial difficulties. I hope the commenter above Little House continues to have a perfect, event-free life with no bumps in the road(job loss, illness, divorce, business failure, etc) so that he/she can continue to pay the bills in full each month. Good for you.
Life was this easy. Unfortunately, as much as I want to follow a similar path I just know that something will jump up and bite me on the ass every time I think I am getting straight.